Beliefs vs Thoughts.

A person is a part of lottery after investing hundreds or thousand of rupees.
He pray at least i would get my invested money as prize at least.
by luck, He won a million and he is very glad to know that he is winner of such a amount. When he went to claim the prize, if lottery company told him for a few certain amount will be charged for taxes and the left amount would be credited to him. He know the whole amount is as a part of winning prize but after hearing the same he start a lots of thinking, "They promised me of a million, and here they are deducting such a large amount". His past beliefs made him reacting angry and give a new thoughts he say You are cheating.

Suppose a student, who wakes up early in the morning and starting a planning "Today I have to submit my project in the college, I have to reach the college on time, and a lots of activity after project submission including go to cafeteria, resta, enjoyment , etc. Suddenly someone tells him, ‘Today College is closed due to any holiday!’ After hearing this, how whole planning and beliefs is changed without taking any moment and all his earlier thoughts are completely replaced with new thoughts and plan related to new beliefs. Everything changed at the same.

                               In the same way when we realized the fact something planned by us is going in a wrong way and there is no need for a worthless worried that what will be after a certain event, and what will be after a specific period , we feel better planned and relaxed that every thing is going in a scheduled way and have a good thoughts now. We are able to see all the possibilities in present. Then ,neither does past exist, nor the future. The same would let us give a thoughts beyond the beliefs.   who is neither panic nor crazy. And finally it's what we are.

Is Friendship a game?

In starting of this month we celebrated Friendship day, A day which is dedicated to friends. So this small post is all about a relation of trust which is “Friendship” based on my personal feeling. 

              As I listen, today’s love is a game but there is a very difficult question in our busy life “Is friendship a game?”. Hope someone can say how nonsense question, but after realizing a fact everyone may have differ answer.

In our history there are lots of great story of friendship but sometime it’s look like only a imagination of writers. I’m not claiming on any books or story of friendship but it’s a feeling of today’s life..

                  I have a story of a friendship in which misunderstanding played a vital role and as a result one had no any effect but another one tried a lots to know the internal reason behind misunderstanding. And after that he thought “Friendship is a game in which someone can involve and play with emotions”. 

             But in these situation I have remember a nice line by a nice one “Never show your emotions to everyone so that everyone can play with them and make a joke on you”.
Finally it’s time to my opinion, Friendship is not a game and no one has right to make it game. Necessity is to know the meaning of Friendship and understand the word trust, believe faith and honesty.

   But just think on it  “Is Friendship a game?”

Painful Remembrances

“Difference between today and ‘2 July 2010’ is 2 years.”

“No matter how long time passed. Remembrance of someone is always remembrance.

 Nothing to say about this painful remembrances. “

                        "We are missing you Gyan Jee."

A short story about finding happiness.

There was a person named Mr. Aditya. His wife was going to her mother’s place first time after marriage. She thought to buy some new jewellery,because she wanted to get a new look. She told to her husband Mr. Aditya for a gold necklace.” Mr. Aditya replied, “Try to understand.I don’t have much money." His wife said “I have two gold bangles.Please exchange it with a gold necklace."

Aditya went to a jewellery for that purpose.The shop kipper said, “It is impossible to exchange two bangles with gold neckless. You have to pay more money also”. Aditya was in very tension. The shopkipper showed him some artificial necklaces that was looking like gold and suggested for it. Mr. Aditya had no choice so he agreed to buy artificial jewellery. In cheapest price he bought it. He told the reality to his wife, “It’s an artificial necklace. Please take it. I shall buy you a original gold in the future.”Her wife accepted.
She went to her parents’ home with wearing a artificial necklace. However, there she told everyone that the necklace is real gold. When Her sister-in-law (her brother’s wife) saw the necklace then she fell in love with it. Now she demanded a gold necklace from her husband also. The husband had not enough money to buy it.But his wife was so unhappy for it.
So he went to a jewellers.He toldtheir problems. The Shopkipper said him, now days artificial jewelry is in fashion, why don’t you buy it. Due to shortage of money,he also bought a artificial necklace, which was quite similar in appearance. He brought it home and said to his wife,it is artificial but you will be look like queen. The wife agreed.
One day Mr. Aditya’s wife went for a bath leaving her necklace on the dressing table. That time her sister-in-law exchanged the necklace with her own. She was very happy to think that "Now I have a original gold necklace”.

Another day Mr. Aditya's wife got an opportunity and she too exchanged the necklace because she had thought that her sister-in-law had a original. She was also very happy to think that now she had a gold necklace.
But we know , both of them has artificial jewellery. But Each one thought, “I have a real gold necklace". And both were very happy. They wasted their whole lives for getting their some false happiness. Because both had not the real fact.
We are feling how foolish they were. But o my dear!!! the entire lives of many people end with trying to get such false happiness. They never find out what is real happiness. We can see that type of people all around are completely involved in this kind of false happiness. But the real happiness, which is permanent, is always within us. It is not necessary to exchange it from other or something else because we have genuine happiness. It is necessary to just find it and belive our self that we have something new that's why we can find happiness through our self.
                                                         

Secret of Happiness.

This is very spiritual time for us due to Shardiye Navratra. Today we are worshiping of Maa Katyaayani. Suddenly I was interested to writing something related to me, you and Happiness.

Lord Krishna has said In Bhagavad Gita , I come to solve your all problem, firstly come to me. You will find complete peace. You will find complete happiness.

In Ramacharitamanasa, Tulsidas jee also said that if you find pleasure , just get back to Lord Ram. Then you have happiness forever. There is no range of pleasures forever.

In Durga saptsati, Markandey jee also said to worship Maa Durga to get real peace and happiness.

In fact there are no matters which god we worship and in which we believe. But matter is to finding the complete happiness and complete peace to solve our all problem in the life. 
As our parent take care about us and fulfill all our requirement according to our necessity, in the same way god fulfill our requirements.

In reality our parent and the parent of our parent is God forever. But some one says where god is. We can’t see god then how to worship God.

Yes,may be he is right but following fact would be the right answer for them : We all know water is combination of Hydrogen and Oxygen. But can we see Oxygen and Hydrogen in water? But we can prove it in Lab. In the same way we know God is every where and forever but our eyes are unable to see. We have not “Divya Drishti” to see or search the God. There are so many facts and reality has been found today to prove it, but there is no need to prove it here.

We all know that God has made us. But due to our busy schedule of life we are forgetting him without thinking it about real pleasure. .

Where are we finding happiness, in our foods, in our dresses, listen to music, in good job, or any place that will get us happiness and lots? Think beyond this. : Where is happiness and complete peace?

We enjoy with favorite foods, dresses, and with lots things. After some time, We don’t like our favorite foods also when it is too enough. After some time, our mind also gets bored with favorite dress which we like and we choose another dress. We also bored with favorite musics and movies. After some time we try to change our job also and just think about many things like it.

But I didn’t listen that in real worship of God we feel boring. Try to connect our mind with spirituality of God. Then we find new fun and enjoy every moment that will never end. Long term peaces will be continue.

According to Ramayana, a crowd of people gathered to see Lord Rama , where he moved. Why? Bcoz. Their beauty was not limited to humans. It was god’s beauty.

The longer you try to think about God, we see the shining in their beauty and increasing their beauty . In fact we are not able to see from our eyes but we can feel it forever.

As his name is great, his stories are great, discussion about him is great, then what are we thinking in our mind? There is no anything hidden about god if we believe and want to know about him.

If Once he come in our heart, they never leave us. Keep him in our heart with pleasure. Just arrange our some time to devotion . Then there are know need to worry for complete happiness and peace for mind.

Jai Mata Di. Jai Sri Krishna, Jai Sri Ram.

गांधी जयंती , हम और आप

कल, 2 अक्टूबर, गांधी जयंती है । इसी दिन हमारे पूर्वप्रधानमंत्री लाल बहादुर शास्त्री का भी जन्मदिन है । ऐसे इस बार रवि वार होने के कारण बहुत लोग ज्यादा खुश नही होंगे। पर इस दिन की सरकारी छुट्टी प्रायः हर किसी को गांधी की याद तो दिला ही देती है । लेकिन शास्त्रीजी का भी यही जन्मदिन है यह बात शायद कम ही लोगों के ध्यान में आती है ।

गांधीजी की हर बात मुझे आज के लिए सही लगती है । शास्त्रीजी के बारे में बहुत नहीं पता है । उन्हें एक ईमानदार राजनेता एवं प्रधानमंत्री के तौर पर जानता हूँ बस। किंतु गांधीजी के बारे में बहुत कुछ कहा जाता है।

पुरी तरह अहिंसा के मार्ग पर चलना आज समझ मे आता तो है लेकिन उसे अपने जीवन मे कैसे लाया जाये समझ मे नही आता ।

कुछ साल पहले जब मैं एक फिल्म "ळगे रहो मुन्ना" भाई देखा तो लगा शायद गांधी जी के अहिंसा के मार्ग पे हम आज भी चल सकते हैं. लेकिन आज कि परिस्थिति को देख कर नहि लगता कि ये इतना आसान हैं । शायद ये बाते सुन कर कितने लोग मुझे भला बुरा कहेंगे लेकिन जरा सोच के देखे तो वे खुद कितना पालन करते है उस अहिंसा के मार्ग का ।

अगर मै कहूँ कि गांधी जी को अपना आदर्श मानना आसान हैं लेकिन उनके आदर्शो का पालन करना कठिन हैं, तो ये मेरी बात कुछ ज्यादा नहीं होगी ।

'मदर्स डे ' पर एक भावनात्मक सोच.....

आज मदर्स डे है....

साल में एक बार मदर्स डे के नाम पर मां के भावनाओ को नमन कर लेना हि 'मदर्स डे' का संदेश नही है. यह दिन तो हमे इस बात का एह्शास दिलाता है कि आज के भाग दौर कि जिंदगी में कितना समय है हम लोगो के पास अपने मां के लिये. एक छोटी सी झलक डालते है उन यादो पे जो कभी भी आप या हम भुल नही सकते...

हम अपने दुःख में और सुख में खोए रहते हैं. न तो मां का आँचल याद रहता है और न ही उनके ममता का वो सागर.

याद नहीं रहती हमे वो मां की थपकियां, जरा सा चोट लगे हमें तो मां की आंखों से झर झर
बहते आंसू. शहर से लौटने पर बिना पूछे वही बनाना जो पसंद हो. जाते समय
अनेको पकवान , खाने कि अनेको समाग्री , पोटलियों में डाल देना.

फोन पे जरा बद्ला आवाज सुन कर पुछ्ना क्या हुआ? तबीयत तो ठीक है न?

देखे तो बोलती-- बहुत दुबला पतला हो गया , खाता नही है क्या?

मंदिर मे रोज प्राथना करती , मेरे बेटे को ठीक रखना प्रभु.

उस पे दया कर प्रभु. उसका ख्याल रख्न्ना प्रभु. उसका ख्याल रख्न्ना प्रभु.

और आज हम कित्ना ख्याल रख्ते है उस देवी का.

हमारे पास उन्हें देने के लिए कुछ नहीं है. हमारे बटुओं में सिर्फ़ झूठ है. गुस्सा है...अवसाद है... अपना बनावटी चिड़चिडापन है.

उनकी आँचल के गांठों में आज भी सुख है दुःख है और हम खोलने जाएं तो हमारे लिए आशीर्वाद के अलावा
वो सब खुशी जो मां के ममता से हमें मिलती है.

" मां तुम तो देवि हो. ..

तेरे आशीर्वाद की ही तो ये चमत्कार है जो हमे खुशी देती है हर पल.

जब भी मन दुखी होता तेरी ममता उस दुख को भी दुर कर देती है उस पल. "